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Briefly, Perfectly Human with Alua Arthur
“By envisioning who I want to be on my deathbed, I invited life in.”
- Alua Arthur (a-lu-ah) Founder of Going with Grace, Death Doula, Recovering Lawyer, Perpetual Seeker of nothing to be found
What do an authentic life lived and death worth dying look like? How does sitting with the inevitable reality of our deaths impact our willingness to show up in the world as our most true selves so that when we meet our deaths; we are able to die empty?
In this episode of The Death & Grief Talk Podcast, I participate in a beautiful exchange with my death care colleague and founder of Going With Grace Alua Arthur . Alua Arthur is a death doula, recovering attorney, and the founder of Going with Grace,...
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What is Ancestor Veneration?
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Is ancestral veneration apart of your culture or death care practice? #ancestors #veneration #blackdeathcare
Gullah Geechee Culture Excursion: Q&A
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Register Here www.thegravewoman.com/courses Registration for this event is on a first-come-first-served basis so please register as soon as possible. Pay in full or make a non-refundable deposit to hold your spot. Beaufort, South Carolina is apart of the heart of the Gullah and Geechee culture. We chose Beaufort, South Carolina not only because it is geographically our home; but because it is t...
Join Me in Beaufort SC for the Gullah Geechee Cultural Immersion Excursion
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Join Me in Beaufort SC for the Gullah Geechee Cultural Immersion Excursion
30 Things to Say Instead of I'm Sorry When Someone Dies E-Book
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30 Things to Say Instead of I'm Sorry When Someone Dies E-Book
Death & Grief MagiK w/ Uncle Brandon
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Death & Grief MagiK w/ Uncle Brandon
Beyond the Veil with Shawna Temple aka Oshun's Light
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Beyond the Veil with Shawna Temple aka Oshun's Light
MLK Foundation Leaders of Democracy Awards Luncheon
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MLK Foundation Leaders of Democracy Awards Luncheon
Dear Brandon with Krystina Christiansen
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Dear Brandon with Krystina Christiansen
Sunday Dinner Conversations- What Really Matters to YOU at the End of Your Life?
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Sunday Dinner Conversations- What Really Matters to YOU at the End of Your Life?
Embalming Room Makeover pt 1
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Embalming Room Makeover pt 1
Black Hair for Death Care 3 New Courses
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Black Hair for Death Care 3 New Courses
Honoring Identity in Life & Death
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Honoring Identity in Life & Death
Behind the Bangs w Caitlin Doughty
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Behind the Bangs w Caitlin Doughty
To Have and to Hold: How Black Families are Creating Generational Wealth
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To Have and to Hold: How Black Families are Creating Generational Wealth
How Hoodoo Helps Black and Indigenous Peoples Navigate Life, Death & Grief
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How Hoodoo Helps Black and Indigenous Peoples Navigate Life, Death & Grief
Why Are Black Mentors Important in Death Care?
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Why Are Black Mentors Important in Death Care?
Creating Space for Black Vendors in Death Care Through Personalized Memorial Keepsakes
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Creating Space for Black Vendors in Death Care Through Personalized Memorial Keepsakes
How Black & Indigenous Communities Use Euphemisms, Parables and Proverbs as Tools for Preplanning
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How Black & Indigenous Communities Use Euphemisms, Parables and Proverbs as Tools for Preplanning
Healing Our Inner Child Through Exploring Our Grief
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Healing Our Inner Child Through Exploring Our Grief
Preserving Joy in Grief
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Preserving Joy in Grief
The Cosmic Order of Death & Grief w/ Aurianna Joy
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The Cosmic Order of Death & Grief w/ Aurianna Joy
Anticipatory Grief, Fear and Social Media Life Balance with Hollis Funeral Home
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Anticipatory Grief, Fear and Social Media Life Balance with Hollis Funeral Home
Asking, Listening, Inviting and Seeking Guidance from the Next Room ALIGN
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Asking, Listening, Inviting and Seeking Guidance from the Next Room ALIGN
Patient Directed End-of-Life Care w/ Compassion and Choices President and CEO Kim Callinan
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Patient Directed End-of-Life Care w/ Compassion and Choices President and CEO Kim Callinan
3 Reasons You Need an Estate Plan
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3 Reasons You Need an Estate Plan
What is an End of Life Guide? With Special Guest Emerald Awakenings
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What is an End of Life Guide? With Special Guest Emerald Awakenings
Support Can’t Be Secret!
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Support Can’t Be Secret!
Racism in Death Care Update
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Racism in Death Care Update
Walking Besides Those Considering Suicide - Death and Grief Talk Podcast Ep3 with Special Guest Cait
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Walking Besides Those Considering Suicide - Death and Grief Talk Podcast Ep3 with Special Guest Cait

Комментарии

  • @brendajohnson7723
    @brendajohnson7723 6 дней назад

    Yes

  • @brendajohnson7723
    @brendajohnson7723 6 дней назад

    I have a question. Do they strap a deceased in the casket under their clothes?

  • @michelleamalayabell8480
    @michelleamalayabell8480 12 дней назад

    Loved this thank you ladies, be blessed always 😘

  • @robinmurphy2102
    @robinmurphy2102 19 дней назад

    I bought the cards, not a conducive study material, i do not recommend. Perhaps the crash course is better.

  • @SheWontStop
    @SheWontStop 20 дней назад

    Do You Know where Capers Island Circle Is ? How about Dr Buzzards son Stephany Robinson

  • @DORCASKWAMBAI-ur3vp
    @DORCASKWAMBAI-ur3vp 21 день назад

    Walai msitunyamazie kwelii let's just help each other 🙏 juu wengine tumefinyiwa mahali

  • @DORCASKWAMBAI-ur3vp
    @DORCASKWAMBAI-ur3vp 21 день назад

    It's nice just help me to study in your institution

  • @margaretlaycock42
    @margaretlaycock42 22 дня назад

    Back in the day onward & upward ... stop look and listen!

  • @margaretlaycock42
    @margaretlaycock42 27 дней назад

    They have a committed teacher! ❤

  • @cathyhall1338
    @cathyhall1338 27 дней назад

    Thank you so much for sharing yourselves with us. You both have such beautiful energy, and I love hearing your perspectives and stories.

  • @anugoddess9222
    @anugoddess9222 28 дней назад

    I love Alua 💚 I took her death doula course during cov. She is so knowledgeable and approachable. I'm happy for the book and all of the exposure she is getting. I'm very excited to listen to the two of you together because the both of you inspire me to do what I know I'm called to do. 😊

  • @GuidedSoul88
    @GuidedSoul88 Месяц назад

    This video was amazing

  • @kalimariemaat808
    @kalimariemaat808 Месяц назад

    Shoutout to Santee South Carolina spent my childhood summers there but I was born in New Orleans whewwwwww never knew what that meant until I moved back to Louisiana but I fell in love with Marie Laveau the moment I seen her she is the truth 🙏🏾

  • @catekatungwa9895
    @catekatungwa9895 Месяц назад

    Was aiming for a health related course and so i went for a four year course...BS Global health and travel medicine... but for this i will enroll for a course on mortician industry...Thanks for this info and your due response to questions❤

  • @danielleaurora9828
    @danielleaurora9828 Месяц назад

    Also, I am praying for you -- and be sure to actually pray for them.

  • @johnbuckle5937
    @johnbuckle5937 Месяц назад

    I fear that job and the practitioners.

  • @4DaKulture23
    @4DaKulture23 Месяц назад

    Love me some Uncle Brandon!

  • @user-iy8ic4zb3t
    @user-iy8ic4zb3t Месяц назад

    I 💕 u 🪦 ♀️

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 Месяц назад

    Nailed it!

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 Месяц назад

    Nailed It!

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 Месяц назад

    Nailed It! Pun intended

  • @TY3751
    @TY3751 Месяц назад

    They know, oh yeah. But the word "dead" is never used. They know that they've passed over. They are normally not near the body at all.

  • @jonnaosborne1832
    @jonnaosborne1832 Месяц назад

    And don't forget "Love Story" with Ali McGraw and Ryan O'Neal. When I was in high school, that was the saddest, most romantic love story we had ever seen (besides Brian's Song).

  • @jonnaosborne1832
    @jonnaosborne1832 Месяц назад

    Brian's Song - also a true story

  • @jonnaosborne1832
    @jonnaosborne1832 Месяц назад

    Shadowlands (a true story) - with Anthony Hopkins and Debra Winger

  • @barbarasmith7381
    @barbarasmith7381 Месяц назад

    A lot of information we did not know! Thanks for this video🥰

  • @Riseabove22
    @Riseabove22 2 месяца назад

    I agree with the car accident phobia. I won't even drive at night now.

  • @Riseabove22
    @Riseabove22 2 месяца назад

    I love listening to you. I especially like the story about the woman on the motorcycle.

  • @norbicsek
    @norbicsek 2 месяца назад

    I'm not familiar with your work, I found my way here via a "caitlin doughty interview" search, but this was an incredible interview! You really know how to ask great questions, ones that genuinely provoke some deep thoughts in the interviewee. I like what she said about not being very online. I've often wondered how she can stay so level-headed and non-combative with some of the topics she covers, while also being confident in her opinions and advocacy.

  • @margaretlaycock42
    @margaretlaycock42 2 месяца назад

    Hey Jo`el You are good at doing different styles of make up and fashion! Beautiful ❤

  • @darcye7629
    @darcye7629 2 месяца назад

    Wow, thank you so much for explaining my mom passed away 3 weeks ago. And we buried her 3 days ago. And we had the viewing. And we touched her arm of course and heard a crunch of plastic. Lifted her sleeve and saw saran wrap. It definitely made me concerned. But you eased my mind with this video. Thank you ❤.

  • @deadpoo4707
    @deadpoo4707 2 месяца назад

    The name Hoodoo come from the word UNDU which means medicine. UNDU is an Akan Word.

  • @smilinghappily6190
    @smilinghappily6190 3 месяца назад

    *throwing my phone across the room* Ms. Lisa said Black women taking care of 10 people and not taking care of herself. Responsible for too many adults.

  • @iconoclastic-fantastic
    @iconoclastic-fantastic 3 месяца назад

    I'm tryna date this mortician I met and also want to be a funeral assistant potentially (considering the possibility of mortuary school for myself as well), so thanks for this chat haha

  • @iconoclastic-fantastic
    @iconoclastic-fantastic 3 месяца назад

    I cannot thank you enough for this information. I do not necessarily want to prepare the deceased, but I want to have a role in funeral service. Mortuary transport was my first choice, but there's no real options in my city. There is a funeral assistant position available though...I think I just might apply. I have the temperament for this industry. I love people and I want to take care of people in the hardest time of their life after losing someone, and I am extremely compassionate, caring, understanding, and can handle these situations with tact. Thank you for this

  • @snoopy1965
    @snoopy1965 3 месяца назад

    I am coughing again proud of you

  • @roxsandbebbs2715
    @roxsandbebbs2715 3 месяца назад

    I was wondering how they embalming the body these days.

  • @DianaOConnell-cu2jn
    @DianaOConnell-cu2jn 3 месяца назад

    🔥 "Promo SM"

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Thanks so much for watching <3

  • @BKnichole88
    @BKnichole88 3 месяца назад

    I really enjoyed this. The 3 questions will be my selfwork/ homework. U are truly a blessing ❤

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Oh how wonderful!!! I am so excited that you enjoyed it and that you’re embracing the questions. Please let me/us know what comes up and what your answers come out to be! Thanks so much for watching 🖤

  • @margaretlaycock42
    @margaretlaycock42 3 месяца назад

    Couldn't get on while you were live,ok now!I was born in 1950,do you think in that era grief was different then now or different by country or influenced by people.In the U.K. children were never included in conversation or being allowed to go to a funeral,grandparents were just not around anymore! I stand up to be counted in my adult life 'to be there' a hug, a smile. ❤

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Thanks so much for watching <3

  • @Marleywiththelocs
    @Marleywiththelocs 3 месяца назад

    Love when you post❤ I miss your funeral stories 💕

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for your support and for watching. I am dedicating more time this year to my RUclips channel and will be sharing MANY more stories. Thanks for your support and be sure to turn on the notification bell so that you won't miss out on lives, videos or post!

    • @Marleywiththelocs
      @Marleywiththelocs 3 месяца назад

      @@TheGraveWomanyou’re so welcome and yay I’m excited I definitely have my notifications on ❤

  • @kenid19
    @kenid19 3 месяца назад

    Ugh! I missed it! I was in the waiting room yesterday. Ill be there come October!!! Thank you for your insight!

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      I am so sorry. It's not your fault. I had my Stream Yard set up the wrong way and it went to my back up chanel and not this one. I can't wait to see you in October.

  • @bobeugene832
    @bobeugene832 3 месяца назад

    You got this!

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much! I did indeed figure out that there was an issue on the hosting platforms end.

  • @elisevaughan262
    @elisevaughan262 3 месяца назад

  • @damionrowe9763
    @damionrowe9763 3 месяца назад

    Gm

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Good Morning to you! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @monicacecil4984
    @monicacecil4984 3 месяца назад

    I am have mexican and eskimo and I love learning about different cultures

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      That is amazing. Come on down to Beaufort ,SC! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @monicacecil4984
    @monicacecil4984 3 месяца назад

  • @monicacecil4984
    @monicacecil4984 3 месяца назад

    Wish I could attend but be having surgery love watching your videos and I would love to learn your family history and so much more if I didn't have need back surgery I would be their

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Praying for you and your surgery. Please take care of yourself and be sure to keep me updated on your healing journey. <3

    • @monicacecil4984
      @monicacecil4984 3 месяца назад

      @@TheGraveWoman thank you so very much

  • @rubypanterra.
    @rubypanterra. 3 месяца назад

    Loved this interview 💙

  • @carlaslaney8771
    @carlaslaney8771 3 месяца назад

    What day is the class?

    • @TheGraveWoman
      @TheGraveWoman 3 месяца назад

      Hey Clara. It’s two parts 1. Self study e-course 2. Full face interactive demo on March 10th (1:00-2:30 pm est) You can learn more here www.thegravewoman.com/store/c10/Courses.html